If we could just tackle this 1️⃣ thing...
"Our relationship would be amazing if we could just tackle this 1️⃣ thing..."
What thing is that, at least what I hear most often? 🧐
Money. Getting on the same page. Having a shared plan. 💸
Whoa. That sounds great, but also like an overwhelming pipe dream, right? 🙄
Well, hopefully this helps. 🙏
I'm going to show the model I recommend to get the money conversation started in a healthy way. 🗣
If you want more guidance on how to fill in the brackets, you can sign up for the full guide here. 📰
Here's the model!:
"I've been thinking a lot about money lately, and I've been feeling [x] because of [event, concern, issue, etc.].
I acknowledge/apologize for [my role in things getting to this situation, i.e. getting defensive, not asking for this conversation sooner, etc.].
I really want [hopes and dreams for the relationship and your lives], and I think getting on the same page about money can help us get there.
When would work for you to start the conversation?"
What do you think? Sound off below! 📢
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Adam Kol is The Couples Financial Coach. He helps couples go from financial overwhelm or fighting to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind.
Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist™, Certified Mediator, and Tax Attorney with a Duke Law degree and a Master's in Tax Law from NYU. He is a husband, dad, and musician, as well.
Adam's wisdom has been shared with The Wall Street Journal, the Baltimore Ravens, CNBC, NewsNation, and more.
