Do you want to know what to do if you and your partner live beyond your means?
In this post, you will learn the most important steps you and your partner can take to successfully tackle this issue.
Resources
Top 3 Goal Setting Tips for Couples
This video and blog are about how to set goals with your significant other.
I’ll take you through the 3 steps to get on the same page and set goals.
From them, you can work towards them together to have the life and relationship you want.
Help! What Happens if I Owe Someone Money? 3 Steps to Eliminate Stress When Borrowing Money Goes Bad
In today’s blog, I will talk about the three steps to handle when you owe someone else money. These three steps will stop the stress and the fighting to the extent that those are occurring.
Gender, Sexism, Money, and Relationships: How to Stop Financial Stress and Fighting
Gender dynamics and stereotypes -- even ones we reject -- play a subconscious role in our relationships with money and each other.
To have equity in our relationships, we must unpack these issues. From there, greater depth and intimacy are available.
Husband's or Wife's Spending Out of Control? Do These 2 Things!
What can you do when you feel like your partner's spending is out of control?
Read this article, and learn about the 2 steps you should take, in order to reduce the stress and anxiety levels around your partner’s spending.
Why We Lie About Money, and How it Hurts Our Relationships
Why do we lie about money, even though we know it hurts our relationships? 😧
📺 This video dives deeply into that question.
If you've lied about money, you're not alone.
Adam Kol, The Couples Financial Coach Quoted by Yahoo Finance!
I'm thrilled to have been quoted extensively on Yahoo Finance!
Here’s a tip I shared for dealing with income inequality in relationships:
“3. Avoid Assumptions
You might think you know why your significant other is uncomfortable with the income inequality in your relationship, but you could be totally wrong. Kol said to avoid making assumptions and talk openly about the issue instead.
‘For example, sometimes the lower earner feels uncomfortable being supported,’ he said. ‘Listen, ask questions and focus on understanding your partner better.’
Taking this route can help avoid hurt feelings, because knowing exactly why your partner is uneasy about the pay gap will allow you to modify your behaviors accordingly."
5 Steps to Start a Healthy Money Talk Without Fighting With Your Husband, Wife, or Partner
Did you know that financial stress is a TOP cause of divorce in the USA? 😧
Use my 5 steps to avoid tension or fighting and instead start a healthy money talk!
Check out my video about these 5 magical steps and why they might make all the difference!
Marriage Counselor or Financial Coach? A Couples Financial Coach's Take on Which One You Need
Money is a top cause of relationship stress, breakups, and divorce. When couples face financial issues, they want to find their way to clarity, teamwork, and peace of mind.
But what kind of professional is best-suited to give you the support you need?
Dave Ramsey’s blog post -- “Marriage Counselor or Financial Coach: Which One Do You Need?” -- tries to bring some clarity to this conversation.
He analyzes some stressful money situations. Then, he suggests whether to hire a (1) Marriage Counselor or (2) Financial Coach.
I’m a Couples Financial Coach and Certified Mediator. I’m also a former Tax Attorney and Financial Advisor. Keep reading to see where I agree, disagree, or even suggest a third choice.
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Below, I’ll discuss Dave’s seven situations. Then, I’ll share some other common money issues and which professional I recommend. Finally, I’ll share more about my work as a Couples Financial Coach.
Deciding between joint vs separate accounts? Here's the 1 issue you MUST discuss!
Deciding between joint vs separate accounts? Here's the 1 issue you MUST discuss!